If there was a vote for worst room in a hospital, every time I say it’s the “Waiting Room.” Waiting is the worst. This time last year, ugh. This time last year, we had finally gotten into Hopkins, visited with several specialists, had several tests done; all to wait and wait and WAIT. This December is different.
I don’t know how I got to be so lucky… to be able to look back while my completely healthy boy sits at my side; but here we are. I still pinch myself. And Joseph. With such a miraculous gift of healing I love looking back to see how to keep moving forward.
A devotional I’ve been reading, launched my perspective for this post. I’m on Day 55 of “100 Days to Brave.” {sidetone: if you don’t know Annie F Downs or her writing, do yourself a favor a pick up one of her books or the devotional!} The title for today is “in the waiting season.” Again, the wait. The scripture at the top of the reading says,
“Wait for the Lord; be strong and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!”
Psalm 27:14
David used his writing to encourage you in the wait. I like that the Bible acknowledges that life is not easy, that waiting is hard. It makes me feel better that the stars of the Bible had it rough too. Is that selfish? Anyways, David’s words are everything; especially if you are waiting. Be strong, he says. Let your heart take courage. Don’t fill your thoughts with deadlines and timelines. Don’t set your hopes or next move on the “perfect moment” or the right doctor or next month. Let your heart take courage. Let it be brave.
Jesus. Reading my journal from last year, I see how hard the wait was but how Jesus kept showing up in the wait in so many beautiful and knowing ways. There is so much comfort in handing over the pain of the unknown, the wait to Jesus. It might sound weird, but what else have you got while you wait? Really. What do you have that’s better; working off the anxiety at the gym, drinking away your worry, hiding from friends, drowning in social events? I see you. I am you. We are all human. The wait is hard for us all. And I am telling you, holding your hand and telling you; God has you. Whatever it is your waiting for; can you invite Jesus into the wait with you?
The season of Advent is all about the wait. Let your heart take courage. Breathe in deep peace. Waiting is hard.
Lucky for you, for me, for all of us; the wait is over. Jesus is born this night. Invite him in.
Merry Christmas.
how the light gets in 